Visit to the oncologist

Tuesday, May 17: 

 From elation to trepidation, Olivier and I attend Tennyson Centre to visit his oncologist, Dr Francis Parnis to find out if the hormone treatment is stopping the spread of cancer in his bones.

Dr Parnis is as bright in his personal style as his colourful patch-work socks peeping out from his well-cut dark suit.  And he has good news for Olivier.

“The tests show the cancer is shrinking and being controlled,’’ he says.

We are delighted to learn that Olivier’s blood levels have halved. “From an initial reading of  90 in January, the PSA has dropped to 45,’’ he adds.

These readings tell of the cancer in the blood, an absolute indication if the treatment is working. ”I thought his PSA was 70 in January,’’ I say.

“Yes, there is another type of blood reading of  70, which is now 35, so each one tells the same good news,’’ he says.

This is the best news and my stone-faced husband relaxes with relief.

Dr Parnis had kept Olivier’s MRI  and body scan results for a case study and the chief pathologist from Adelaide Pathology Services had sent us an account for attendance.

“What advice did the pathologist offer you about Olivier’s condition?’’ I ask.

“He confirmed that Olivier has a high grade Gleeson Number 8 cancer,’’ Dr Parnis says.

“He has been referred to me earlier than is usually the case because of the aggressive nature of the cancer,’’ he continues.

“We will watch carefully for any early change in the blood tests – and then we will immediately change treatment.”

He must have seen the words chill my initial joy, because he adds:

“I have some patients with Olivier’s grade of cancer who are alive five years after diagnosis.”

He asks Olivier how he is going with his exercise program and when Olivier says “sometimes’’, he adds “I must stress how important exercise is for.’’

We leave feeling that Olivier is in the most competent hands.

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3 Comments to “Visit to the oncologist”

  1. By Chris Nicholls, 24/05/2011 @ 1:06 pm

    Sometimes we get caught up in our own world and don’t realise what has been going on in the lives of our good friends. Yes, I am very fortunate to travel with my husband, live in the beautiful hinterland of the Sunny Coast, and spend precious time with my children and new grand-daughter in Melbourne. I have suddenly caught up with what has been happening in your life my precious friend.
    You may remember my father-in-law Stan was diagnosed with Prostate cancer in his 60’s. Stan is now an amazing 86 (I will send a photo) on June 1st. Also my father had Prostate cancer and lived until 92. Olivier is of course in the best of hands in both physical and spiritual care. Do give him our love.

    Thinking of you,
    Chris

    • By nadine williams, 24/05/2011 @ 3:21 pm

      Hello Chris, Lovely to hear from you and congratulations on your grand-daughter’s birth. What is her name? Hope to see you soon as we plan to travel over the next few years.
      XXX Nadine

  2. By dale lawrence, 01/08/2011 @ 8:23 am

    Hi

    My wife recently gave me your book to read from france with love and hence i googled to get more details on the writer and family.
    I loved the book and someday will trace some of your steps as can relate it to my love of my 2nd wife whom I have been married for 10 years…
    Iam sorry to here that olivier isnt well but iam sure your love for each will help you through.
    thank you for a wonderful story and my wife is next for the read.
    best wishes
    Dale Lawrence

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